Program Goals/Program Theory
Motivational interviewing (MI) is a counseling method that uses a brief, collaborative, client-centered, and goal-oriented approach to improve and strengthen individuals' motivations to change. MI aims to foster behavioral change by encouraging self-efficacy and personal responsibility while avoiding confrontation or blame. MI for Dating Aggression targets unmarried young adult couples (ages 18–25) who have never lived together and have a history of physical aggression (without serious injury). This version of MI addresses the partners' ambivalence toward change and encourages their motivation to change harmful behaviors. MI for Dating Aggression was designed based on similar MI interventions, which focused on risk factors such as heavy drinking or relationship stress (Marlatt et al. 1998; Cordova et al. 2005).
Program Activities
The version of MI for dating couples is a brief, one-session intervention. During the session, couples complete an individualized feedback sheet that identifies levels of aggression, risk factors for aggression, and effects of aggression. Feedback is then given by the therapist in a non-confrontational and empathetic way to each partner individually. Therapists provide individual feedback on possible impacts of aggression on the partner and the relationship, and discuss possible behavioral changes. Therapists discuss risk factors for harmful behaviors, including heavy alcohol use and psychological aggression (i.e., insults, threats, controlling behaviors). They also discuss the consequences of aggression, such as depression, anxiety, and relationship stress. Feedback addresses aggression perpetrated by both genders; however, therapists are careful to avoid blame when discussing risky behaviors. Individuals are given the opportunity to respond to the feedback while therapists reinforce and encourage any expressed desire for behavioral change. The individual feedback sessions last about 45 minutes and the results are not shared with the other partner.
In the remaining 15 minutes of the session, the therapist meets with the couple to reinforce each partner's desire and motivation to change behaviors related to aggression. At the end of the session, couples are given sealed envelopes with written summaries of their assessment, informational brochures, and a list of referrals for additional resources. In total, the MI for Dating Aggression session lasts about 2 hours.